Never give up…


This week have been insane, I have so much on my plate that I’m afraid I will fall asleep any time soon.

I’m working a lot lately just to be “secure” during my Christmas vacations (we never know, right?), at the same time, I’m moving out from my current place at the end of the month. Do not get my wrong, I love my place but the people that moved to the upper floor… bananas. They are more than noisy, it is crazy the amount of noise they make, and I’m not talking about the kids playing at 8:30 am on a Saturday or Sunday, a few days ago they were moving furniture before 6 am… WHAT THE HECK? (and this is something that happens at least 3 times per week). Oh, and the husband sleeps on the living room, he snores so loud that I can hear him like he is in my apartment. I have not sleep well in a month (since they moved in).

Anyway, enough of my house drama. Let’s talk about those moments in our lives in which we feel we are not moving forward.

Sometimes life could be a marathon, we feel like we want to leave all our dreams behind because the struggle to reach our goals it’s too damn real.

Simultaneously, life sometimes can discouraged us, but the important thing here is what we had accomplish so far, maybe we are not “there” yet but we are walking on that direction.

I’m sorry if my message it is not delivered properly, lately I have been feeling so insecure with my writing… can you understand me a little bit?

I have a very good friend, Andreea (she is from Romania). She is always sending me worship songs to give me strength during my not so good times. Last week she told me that God does not give us tasks that He does not sure we can do it, and she says He knows us more than anything, and He is next to us in every step (even when, right now, I feel like I’m walking by myself).

I just know that I need to keep moving, and I cannot stop. If I stop, I will be an ordinary person when I know I’m extraordinary, I don’t settle for less that I know I deserve (except if we talk about my Love lol).

I promise you I will feel better tomorrow, and I will find that good that I’m missing lately.


P.S: I was thinking this morning: “how do you want to become a writer if you do not write?”, well, here I am, writing.


31 Comments Add yours

  1. Stephanie says:

    We all have our moments with writing. Just keep writing to put all of your thoughts on paper. Let your unconscious mind guide you.

  2. Tina says:

    If you chase two rabbits, you won’t catch either one:) – Russian Proverb. Take care of yourself. Good luck on your move.

    1. bellafilippi says:

      You are right💕thank you

  3. Keep on keeping on girl!!

    1. bellafilippi says:

      I will 🙏🏻thank you, Natashya!

  4. Monika says:

    It’s exactly how I feel these days.. but as you say, we need to keep moving, even if we feel sometimes like it’s completely pointless.. But what would happen if we stopped?! We’d die! Okay, not literally… but you know what I mean… 😉 so, let’s just not give up, brace ourselves and push through it! xx

  5. littleverons says:

    life can sometimes be so tough you feel like nothing is going your way but not giving up is key because if you notice when you feel that’s it you can’t anymore and you push a little something positive happens

  6. I am in the same boat right now. So much change is about to happen and personally I am ready for it. But in the same breath it feels like I am not going anywhere slowly. Giving up is not an option as I have come to far to give it all up. But sometimes it does get me down.

  7. beautyfromburnttoast says:

    We all have those moments….but I love the fighting spirit of just pushing through. You are a great writer and I got your sentiments loud and clear. A good verse (probably the one your friend was thinking of) to think of when feeling down about your path may be Romans 8:28 “and we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” He’s here with you, even in the darkest hour. Take heart ❤

  8. ejnets says:

    I always ask myself the same questions, but sometimes writing doesnt seem enough.. 🙂

  9. Thank you for sharing your writing with us. Try to keep in mind that perpetual motion isn’t what our souls are designed for, and God commands us to be still, too. Maybe you might find peace in the stillness of the season if you allow yourself some rest. 🙂

  10. Freddy says:

    Your friend Andreea is right. God never gives you a challenge you’re not able to handle, but you do have to accept his help in it. Have a look at 1 Corinthians 10:13 for instance. Sometimes it’s really hard, which I know from experience, but He can really help pull me through the worst of days.

    1. bellafilippi says:

      Thank you so much for your words!! I will take a look.

  11. lincolnlifesite says:

    Reblogged this on Lincoln Life Blog.

  12. lincolnlifesite says:

    Your writing is very good, because I really enjoyed it, and thats the point if people are enjoying what you write, then you are a good writer.
    i really look forward to reading the rest of your posts.

    1. bellafilippi says:

      Thank you very much for your words.

      1. lincolnlifesite says:


  13. NappturallyInspired says:

    I am not a writer either, but I enjoy writing. Keep at it! The message of this post was great, thank you for sharing!

    1. bellafilippi says:

      Thank you for reading 💕

  14. jplagens says:

    I read somewhere that 97% of people give up blogging within the first 3 months. No one tells you how lonely and painstaking it is when you write for hours and get no feedback. You wonder what in the world am I doing? I’ve had the same kind of thoughts this week. Just remember you have beat the other 97% by just posting another blog. Keep writing!!!

    1. bellafilippi says:

      Thank you so much for your words 💗big hug

  15. RahulYuvi says:

    Wonderful post..Sometimes, you think you have been buried when actually you have been planted .This I learnt after having won over a chronic disease after years of struggle..Here’s the story (Not a sad one I promise 🙂 )

    1. bellafilippi says:

      Thank you!!!!! I will check yours 💗💗

      1. RahulYuvi says:

        thank you.. I have shared my story as I just wish what all I suffered,others don’t have too..things eventually turn better..they always do..but at times, we loose race & patience with time..

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